First Lady™

12/9/09 | Ladies:

Since we’re on that topic, this is just a reminder to know your worth and not let others disrespect you or your property without having a word in it. You’ll come across dozens of people in your life that will basically half-ass everything they do and treat you like you didn’t walk into their lives for any good reason. Then you’ll come across those who will simply not give a damn about you, whether you like it or not. Either way, learn the lesson. In the end, you are always a few steps ahead.

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Lame.

Don’t you love it when you clearly state many times and even post a “memo” on the sidebar of your blog, asking viewers and so-called rebloggers to respect your shit and just give you credit for your work? It is not difficult at all to understand people. How about someone visit your blog, read something that they like, and instead of re-blogging it like they should, copy and paste that shit as a new post to their blog? You obviously don’t realize how much time and effort it takes to not respect someone by simply not giving them the credit they deserve and delete the source than to just click on the reblog button. Knock some sense into your lazy self and quit acting like you won’t be sorry for it later. Read carefully and respect others’ property. Is it really that hard? C’mon now.

-FLTM

Esther Claire,

we want to wish you one more time as the night comes to an end, Happy Birthday! :) Hope you had a blast as we’re sure the Bay was more than welcome to share itself with you, the beautiful celebrant, on your special 1-8. Although every day should be treated like a birthday, we hope you enjoyed it nonetheless. Thank you, FirstLady Es, for you are one of our own blessings! :) We love you!

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TLC: Antsy to get into your Panty?

Yes, I know what you’re thinking: “Antsy to get into your panty”?? Although, the title really does say it all. Think of this as a more direct entry to both the guys and gals. I think we can all agree to a certain extent that many females are “afraid” of this one thing about males. That one thing: the only date he’s looking forward to is in the bedroom. Right, you’ve all heard that before. And you’ve all heard one female or another mention it- negative in most cases. The bottom line is: getting rid of this notion that males [or maybe even females] are only after that one thing, on both sides, is rather necessary if we all want to find “the one” someday. Don’t you think?

So dudes, if you’re a genuine guy and take no part in this because you really want to get to know a female, what do you think? What goes through your mind when you know you’re trying but at the same time she’s one of those girls who has her guard up simply because she doesn’t want to end up being a one-night-stand or anything of that nature? What do you do to try and make her realize that you and your feelings are genuine? If you could answer these questions confidently, kudos to you. We’re well aware that guys like you do exist out there. Don’t worry, we haven’t forgotten about you. On the other hand, if you do in fact participate in this and care more or only about getting into the pants of a female, stop right there. Please check yourself, before you wreck yourself. Done? Alright. Here’s what you should do…MAN up. The only thing you’re fucking is yourself. If you ever expect to maintain a relationship, a good suggestion would be to start now and your best bet to one is getting into the mind and heart of a female, NOT her pants. Real dudes, if you get past this guard of hers, don’t doubt that you’re doing something right.

So girls, if he’s playing his cards right, you should be able to know the difference between him who’s really trying to get to know you and the one-nighter. Once you know and if things work out, great for the both of you. You might just be each other’s keeper. :) Just remember not to turn a good one away just because you think he’s like the rest and in for that one-hit mission and nothing more. Guys, vice versa- it could happen.

-FLTM

It's about

tellytothe:

It’s about working hard for what you want and knowing when to stand up for what you deserve. It’s not about demoralizing others; it’s about self-empowerment. It’s not about being arrogant; it’s about displaying your confidence and intellect as a badge of pride. It’s not asserting any inherent superiority or self-entitlement, but recognizing your own self-worth and value.